In light of the recent Amish school shooting, why do married couples often overlook their spouse’s mental illness and ignore their disturbing behavior? Divorce experts say many times the wife or husband wants to save the marriage instead of coming to terms with their spouse’s odd behavior.

It’s not uncommon to hear about a spouse who gets involved in child pornography, or child molestation, even during the marriage. How does this go unnoticed? Or is it just ignored? Did the wife of Charles Roberts the 4th know something was wrong?