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Comment on Financial Mistakes to Avoid by Jennie

Jennie — Fri, 09 May 2008 13:51:32 +0000

I can see how this can be true. If couples could take the emotion out of the situation and sit down and talk about the problem on hand, they may be able to attack the problem head on and come up with a plan of action. Their are so many plans out their for people who are in debt. These programs can help anyone not just couples get out of debt with the best plan for them. With a little bit of research they can look into what program is best for them, like debt settlement, consolidation, or CCCS. Once you have researched all avenues a decision should then be made. Then I would start researching the different companies that are out there. Unfortunately, not all companies are the same and some are even scams, so it is important to be careful. Once you choose the company they will then sit with you and make up your own personal plan of action to helping you become debt free! Admitting their is a problem is the fist step. getting help is the second, getting through the program is the third and becoming debt free is the fourth!

Comment on How to Sleep Alone in a King Size Bed by Theo Nestor

Theo Nestor — Mon, 05 May 2008 15:06:41 +0000

Hi,

Thanks for the nice comments about my book How to Sleep Alone in a King-Size Bed. My attorney, Molly Kenney, has begun stocking the book on her office shelf to give to folks in the first miserable days of their divorces. She also keeps on hand a number of other books, such as Split Custody with a Jerk (she gave me one, but I feel I have to hide it under the bed so my kids won’t see it) and Smart Women Finish Rich.

It seems like a great idea. People going through a divorce have so many issues coming up all at once and a good attorney can only realistically give attention to the legal ones.

Thanks again,
Theo

theonestor.com

Comment on Alienation of Affection/Criminal Conversation by Bonet

Bonet — Thu, 01 May 2008 21:38:31 +0000

How many times were you enamored of someone before your marriage only to have that person not return your affection? Shouldn’t this tell you how difficult it is to MAKE one person fall in love with another? Why is it an assumption that a 3rd party can just waltz right into someone’s life and brainwash them into loving them and disliking that person’s present spouse with whom they have had a life, family, and history?

No, this law needs to go away right now. It doesn’t protect marriage, it allows the partners in the marriage to avoid reponsibility for their own behaviour during the marriage by foisting it off on someone else. It is much easier to point to someone else than it is to acknowledge that painful realization that either one’s behaviour in part caused the failure of the marriage, especially if it means that they will have to change.

The problem is that the wounded need a sense of control over their lives, a way to stop the pain of separation/divorce. AA/CC lawsuits thrive on this feeling of powerlessness. Very few of the AA/CC lawsuits are actually brought into the courts, the accusation is most commonly used to gain leverage in separation/alimony proceedings. It benefits no one, except for perhaps an attorney or two here or there.

If the state REALLY wanted to honor the marriage state, they would require a minimum of six months premarital counselling prior to marriage. A requirement of pre-divorce counselling would be good too.

Comment on New Study: Kids Behavior Problems May Not be Linked to Divorce by Steven Campbell

Steven Campbell — Thu, 01 May 2008 00:24:03 +0000

I am also very interested in the area of kids behavior after divorce. Thanks for pointing out this research!

Comment on New Study: Kids Behavior Problems May Not be Linked to Divorce by Leann Rolen

Leann Rolen — Wed, 30 Apr 2008 23:28:42 +0000

I agree with these findings 100%. It’s the adults who end the marriage that determine the effect of the divorce on the children.

Comment on Love & Money by Amanda Kelly

Amanda Kelly — Sun, 27 Apr 2008 03:24:55 +0000

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Comment on Housework: Married Men vs. Cohabiting Men by Michelle Johnson

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Comment on Year Round Schooling by Nico

Nico — Sat, 26 Apr 2008 08:15:15 +0000

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Comment on Best Divorce Movies by Jay Stephens

Jay Stephens — Fri, 25 Apr 2008 17:57:14 +0000

I am a 36 year old divorcee from Fl currently doing an essay on the most popular reasons for divorce in America. My essay will discuss reasons such as money, infidelity, abuse, and communication. Would you give me a brief example of a personal experience or of someone you know that has divorced for each of these reasons.

Comment on New Child Support Plan to Reduce Overcrowded Jails by pantz

pantz — Mon, 21 Apr 2008 15:39:58 +0000

you can’t pay if you’re in jail. you shouldn’t be jailed if you have been paying, but fall behind due to circumstances like making less money, job loss, etc